It wasn't "invigorating" but there was a glow around my dad, even though there was terrible pain. We knew this was the big goodbye you could just feel it and although there were little physiological details that made me recoil deeply, there was an inextinguishable joy ripping through the sadness.RussellK wrote:You asked how many and I answered your question. Never. Not the answer you wanted? Still doesn't change the answer. I've never seen anyone dying look invigorated or report being invigorated by the experience.Velokid1 wrote:I find that hard to believe given that I've watched that very phenomenon in four close friends and family members over the past 9 years.
Thoughtful contribution to the discussion though Russell.
Never would I have described the experience as "ugly".
Rather than "invigorating" I would call it life affirming ...
RussellK wrote: My BIL died last year. It was slow, painful and ugly. He wasn't happier for the experience. My reply seems appropriate enough.
This has been a well-tread theme in the opinion pages, and it is precisely the most dangerous presumption of the Democrats to declare that their perspective allows them to see the other side's "altered" or flawed "reality". While I personally agree that the candidate who answers all the Republican platform requirements would have to be cruel and ignorant and a liar too, I would like to warn the Democrats against both complacency and arrogance. The electorate is almost like a car crash victim hysterically casting about for blame. One stupid slip-up like Obama's "they cling to guns and religion" could be painfully costly in a tragically unnecessary way.RussellK wrote:Danforth was quoted this morning as saying this Republican party is not the party he knew. That Newt Gingrich and his altered reality can be a serious contender for the nomination is for me just astounding. But then again altered reality might just be part of the Republican candidate job description.
Colin